Simple Furniture

In a prior post I talked about what works as a Simple Wardrobe for me.

Along the same lines, the idea of one or two people living in a one or two room space (under 900 sq. ft.) is intriguing to me. It appeals to my sense of economy, simplicity and overall consuming fewer resources.

For the most part, if you think about it, in larger homes people gravitate to only one or two rooms most of the time anyway. For me, larger homes, with one or two people living in them, signify poor space planning and poor design. Why does anyone need more than one space in which to read, work or converse? Why live in a home with more bathrooms than people who use them?

There are better alternatives. Here’s the fun part. Living in a small space requires simple but thoughtful and flexible furniture. It should also be beautiful and elegant – why not? Everything should be available for numerous purposes. Plus it should be light weight and easy to move around as necessary.

It would be best if items were obtained from consignment or resale shops, Craigslist, garage sales or swapping. Many of the items below are no longer manufactured by mainline furniture manufacturers. Why not? Again, the furniture industry is DEEPLY ASLEEP.

Here are some ideas for a one or two room spaces. Many of the photos are from a Swedish real estate broker/stager – but the ideas are good. Get ready. Here we go.

Start with a sofabed. A few sofabed possibilities – most easy to create:

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Add just one table. Your only table should be flexible. Extend and contract as needed for dining, cooking, office work. I wouldn’t recommend creating a separate dining area as it takes up way too much space compared to the amount of use. However if you want a table that can expand to create a dining area as needed try something adjustable – like these gate leg tables.

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If you are using just one table, I would recommend a tea table (round pedestal 36 – 42 inch) that serves as coffee table, end table by a sofa, a desk or dining table. It can easily work as a bedside table too. Notice that those below are height adjustable.

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Desk or small dresser can also work as a bedside table.

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2 small storage ottomans or even stools at bed foot or foyer could be moved to the living area if needed for extra seating.

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Here’s a bench that also works as a landing pad for the entry hall.

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4 folding chairs to add to dining if needed but used elsewhere too – such as bedside tables in the bedroom perhaps? Extra points if the chairs also fold up for easy storage.

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And of course consider flexible tables if you decide to go for a separate coffee table. Again, all of these have more than one possible purpose, starting with this chat-height table which can be used as a coffee table, end table, or for casual dining.

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In the end a small space could be furnished with as little as a sofa or sofabed, one table and a side chair. Simple. Beautiful. Flexible.

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Simple Wardrobe

A previous post listed ways to move toward Simple Living. One way I simplified my life last year was to stop buying clothes.

After a year of not buying clothes I have a good sense of the clothes that I wear on a regular basis. It’s not very many, about 15 items in all.

It turns out that these pieces work because they are multi-functional, multi-seasonal, easy-care, no-iron and except for the shoes and coats, fit in a pilot carry-on bag.

Basically this selection of clothes requires no dry cleaning, no hosiery, no iron, no belts, no heels, no blazers, no skirts, no dresses and no purses. These items work in hot weather or can be layered for winter. They all travel well too – an added bonus. Here’s the list:

3 Pants – denim, grey, black

2 No-iron shirts – white cotton oxford, blue denim

5 T-shirts – white, black, three brightly colored

1 Red(ish) crew neck sweater, 1 red tank top

2 Turtleneck sweaters

2 Cardigans – one black, one grey

Add scarves – use as a bandanna, in place of a necklace or as a wrap, small evening purse (see furoshiki post), shopping bag, belt, or sarong over pants.

Footwear – dark brown casual shoes, black slip-ons, tennis shoes, slippers, boots (winter), sandals (summer).

Outerwear – navy wool pea coat, trench raincoat and brown felt jacket.

Everything goes with everything else. Most of the pieces are basic styles. Easy wash – one load. Natural fabrics. It would be ideal if everything was fair trade – though not everything is. Add socks & underwear. Include gloves and a hat or swimsuit as needed.

So, about just under 20 items, depending on the season. However, there are probably about 40-45 items in my closet in total. But now I see that 20-25 items I almost never use. Time to lighten up, wash them up . . . pass them forward . . . let someone else enjoy and use them.

Of course this is still waaay too much considering the wardrobes of those in the Two-thirds World. What I have in excess doesn’t belong to me – it belongs to those who have nothing. If you knew that having  a few less clothes would help someone in your neighborhood have one meal a day to survive you wouldn’t hesitate, right? Does it matter that this person is farther away? Of course not! People have a right to food, even if they can’t pay for it – by virtue of being human.

Even as a secular society we know this because we don’t charge children or those who are sick for their food. Human beings have a right to the basic necessities of life, regardless of their financial situation.

Paring back my wardrobe, then, isn’t about sending my excess clothes to another country. That’s a bad idea for many reasons, one of which is that sending lots of used clothing to poor countries puts local used clothing businesses out of business.

Instead, donating my clothing to organizations like Good Will helps those who need it locally. It also reminds me to use this money, not for clothes, but to directly help organizations that are working successfully to change the underlying causes of poverty – like Mary’s Pence does with their ESPERA Funds – community lending funds for women.

Most of what I have is, in fact, not only excess – but excessive. I’ll continue to pare back as I go. It’s a process.

What items do you wear most of the time? What would your ideal simple wardrobe be?

Write it down. Work toward making it happen.

Coming soon – Simple Furniture

You may also like The Jewelry We Keep, Closet Check, Fabulous Furoshiki and Simplifying My Wardrobe

Simple Living

Feeling hassled, rushed and harried is not living – not a life. Busyness and complexity are over rated. Being overscheduled is not the mark of importance or goodness. It is a mark of not carefully considering the content of one’s life.

Simplify your life. Here are some ideas to get started. Pick one that you would like to try for awhile. See how it works.

  • Get rid of the TV(s). It’s too negative, mind-numbing and junk food for the soul.
  • Stop cable, newspaper and magazine subscriptions.
  • Cancel cell phone(s) and use Skype.
  • Stop buying bottled water, soda, juices, vitamin drinks, sweetened teas or other bottled beverages.
  • Live in a smaller space – less to furnish, cool, heat, clean, paint, etc.
  • Leave your car at home. Bike, use public transport when possible.
  • Take a technology vacation. Check personal email at the end of the day or only once a week.
  • Read more. Join a book club.
  • Stop spending time with people who don’t make you feel good – even if they are “friends” or “family” because they aren’t.
  • Spend more time with real friends and cultivate new, healthy relationships (try the book club).
  • Get healthy on the inside. Stop negative or “victim-hood” self-talk. Practice healthy, affirmative and empowering self-talk every day.
  • Pay off bills. Stop buying stuff. Save more. Donate more.
  • Cook more. Use local food. Eat out less.
  • When you cook use meat as a flavoring. Eat more vegetables.
  • Make your own no-knead bread. Make your own Greek yogurt.
  • Make a pot of soup and share it.
  • Laugh more.
  • Write. Journal. Reflect.
  • Walk more.
  • Try one new thing each week.
  • Use a down comforter. Turn down the heat.
  • Let the sunlight in. Let in fresh air. Keep it clean.
  • Detach. Give away half your clothes, CDs, books, collections, etc.
  • Enjoy the empty space, cupboards, closets, cabinets, bookshelves. Much easier to keep clean.
  • Sit in silence. Do nothing for at least 20 minutes every day.
  • Do yoga, walking, running, swimming or any exercise you enjoy.
  • Drink less caffeine, more water or herbal tea.
  • Enjoy fresh flowers – inside or out.
  • Play more. Have fun.
  • Orient your life toward those who struggle. Learn about the root causes of poverty.
  • Love yourself deeply.
  • Share your life with others.
  • Love your life, where you are, just as it is.

There’s more. Simple Wardrobe and Simple Furniture posts coming soon . . .

You may also like Secret of Wealth From Ancient Babylon, Fill Your Life With Fabulous, and Simplify, Simplify, Simplify.

Authentic Living – Life Editing

"A rose by any other name . . ."

If one is truly living an authentic life – then this means being the author of one’s life – the root meaning of authentic. As a writer I know that writing or authoring requires editing.

My friend T. mentioned that she was in the process of “editing relationships” in her life. That’s it! That’s the ongoing process. Every relationships doesn’t need to continue, particularly if it no longer gives good energy or joy to my life.

Think of the care I give to choosing my life work, activities I participate in, where I live, what I read, clothing and even furniture. I need to give even more care to the relationships that go into my life.

Editing my relationships – and all of the content – of my life is one of the most important things I can do to move toward living a truly authentic and genuine life.

Justice begins within.

You may also like Fill Your Life With Fabulous, Authentic Living and Difficult People.

Half the Church or Half a Mind?

Half the Church: Recapturing God’s Global Vision for Women, Carolyn Custis James, Zondervan, 2010.

The title sounded promising. According to the inside back cover, Carolyn Custis James has an M.A. in Biblical Studies – but you would never know it from reading her book. I want to ask, “Does she have half a mind?” If this is a book about the subjugation of women in culture and in the church, this author reinforces all the stereotypes that subjugate women. To be fair, she writes from a patriarchal, privileged perspective herself, although she doesn’t acknowledged this in her book. From the non-gender inclusive language for God to the militaristic images she proposes for women, this woman is moving full speed ahead to make sure that women never experience equality, never mind respect or mutuality.

Her limited interpretation of Genesis leads the reader to believe that she has never read a single feminist interpretation of Genesis. Why not? How did this woman get her college degree much less a master in biblical studies????

Her biblical interpretation reads like an eighth grader’s. Really, if women and men are image bearers – as she writes –  why does she insist on using only masculine language for God? There’s an obvious contradiction here and a huge gap in her own training and understanding.

With militaristic imagery throughout – she perpetuates an oppressive, patriarchal agenda; “God created his daughters to be kingdom builders” (76). 

To her credit, she rightly notes that the Church’s focus on women as married and mothers only looks at thirty years of a woman’s life and ignores younger & older women, single women – half the population of women (103). A message of virginity and “purity” (whatever that means) for women leaves out women who are abused sexually (104). Here she demonstrates that she actually had access to statistics on women. Why then didn’t she reference statistics on American women’s pay inequality or lack of health care and health insurance compared to men doing the same job? This is pretty selective editing.

She notes early on that women suffering is a global phenomena, “The conversation about God’s vision isn’t American or Western or middle class. It is global. I knew that going in” (19). But evidently “global” doesn’t include Western European or U.S. cultures. For the remainder of the book she focuses on examples of discrimination against women from other cultures – not her own. This is because she is mistakenly convinced that our culture already treats women fairly. She writes, “What makes navigating life for women even more confusing is the fact that we don’t live in a patriarchal culture. The West is egalitarian. Women enjoy the same freedoms, education, career opportunities and potential for success as men.” (158). Wow. What country or culture is she living in?

She actually says this: “Does the gospel’s countercultural message only overturn degrading cultures like those of Reem and Meena, or does it also overturn our own more civilized but equally fallen culture . . .?” (Italics, author’s. 123) Hmmm . . . other cultures are “degrading,” ours is “more civilized”? Sorry, but other cultures are not failed versions of our own culture. Our culture is degrading to women in many ways. However, if possibly, James believes our own culture discriminates against women in numerous ways, she fails to list what they may be.

What has inspired her is Kristoff’s and WuDunn’s book Half the Sky highlighting the abuse of women around the world. Yet her own subjugation to patriarchy is evident and real (although she can’t see it) in the very questions she asked regarding her own life; “Do I plan to use my college degree or set it aside?” Really? Parents who work at home raising their children are not using their education?? She asks, “Should I be a stay-at-home mom or work outside the home?” (36). These questions are VERY life limiting. Very few men ever ask them and those who do are considered different from the culture. No one living in a non-discriminatory culture should have to choose between work and family. Children are the responsibility of both parents and the community. Society should support the work of caring for and nurturing children.

Similar to Half the Sky, James never goes any deeper in trying to understand the systemic issues at stake. On p.40 she clearly realizes that it is women’s own fathers, brothers and uncles who oppress and even murder women but she can’t see this for the systemic genocide that it is. This same genocide is at work in this country too.

The fact is that women earn less than men and are  more likely to live in poverty in our country – a country that refuses adequate safety nets for women and their children. Women are impregnated and raped against their will every day of the week right here in the USA. Violence against women in the U.S. – women are killed at the rate of at least 5,000 per year – seems to have escape her.  She isn’t safe going into a dark parking ramp at night any more than I am.

Lastly, her proposal of the “Blessed Alliance” is about everyone working together for God’s purposes (146-147). But here it reads more like an alliance with patriarchy, militarism and Western empire. She is aware of her “blessings” in life within her “civilized” culture – but completely unaware that these are actually unearned privileges (not really blessings) caused by benefiting unfairly on the coat tails of patriarchy, white privilege and imperialism. In reality these privileges come at a huge cost – one she refuses to acknowledge. Yet illuminating cultural injustice is the very task of the Christian theologian. The gospel preached by Jesus is subversive for every culture. Ours is not exempt.

However, those of you reading this can learn more about the unearned benefits and ongoing wealth transfer of white privilege here.

Yes, Carolyn is a fully subjugated, oppressed, product of her patriarchal culture. With this shallow, tiny, limited and oppressive view the reader will never capture God’s global vision for women.

I recommend that you read or watch something more worthwhile like The Boy Who Harnessed the Wind, World Class Theologians at Your Fingertips and How Much is Enough?. Then learn more about White Privilege.