Everyday life offers us many doorways. Some lead us into amazing new life. Others lead us to delightful places we could never have envisioned for ourselves. We choose to walk through some and not others.
If you would like your life to be different then definitely walk through a new door.
Why? As DH explained, if you stay where you are it is certain that your life will remain just as it is- NO chance for a better life. Remember the definition of “insanity” – continuing to do the same thing expecting a different result.
If you walk through a new door there is at least a 50% chance that your life will improve. The fearful fatalist will note that there is also a 50% chance that things could get worse, but that is true even if you stay where you are!
Since I am a believer in a loving God I actually believe that the percentage that things will improve by walking through a new door is much, much higher than 50%.
Life beckons – urgently.
Watch and see the many doors your life places before you today. Can you find them? Which new door will you open?
In a prior post I talked about what works as a Simple Wardrobe for me.
Along the same lines, the idea of one or two people living in a one or two room space (under 900 sq. ft.) is intriguing to me. It appeals to my sense of economy, simplicity and overall consuming fewer resources.
For the most part, if you think about it, in larger homes people gravitate to only one or two rooms most of the time anyway. For me, larger homes, with one or two people living in them, signify poor space planning and poor design. Why does anyone need more than one space in which to read, work or converse? Why live in a home with more bathrooms than people who use them?
There are better alternatives. Here’s the fun part. Living in a small space requires simple but thoughtful and flexible furniture. It should also be beautiful and elegant – why not? Everything should be available for numerous purposes. Plus it should be light weight and easy to move around as necessary.
It would be best if items were obtained from consignment or resale shops, Craigslist, garage sales or swapping. Many of the items below are no longer manufactured by mainline furniture manufacturers. Why not? Again, the furniture industry is DEEPLY ASLEEP.
Here are some ideas for a one or two room spaces. Many of the photos are from a Swedish real estate broker/stager – but the ideas are good. Get ready. Here we go.
Start with a sofabed. A few sofabed possibilities – most easy to create:
Add just one table. Your only table should be flexible. Extend and contract as needed for dining, cooking, office work. I wouldn’t recommend creating a separate dining area as it takes up way too much space compared to the amount of use. However if you want a table that can expand to create a dining area as needed try something adjustable – like these gate leg tables.
If you are using just one table, I would recommend a tea table (round pedestal 36 – 42 inch) that serves as coffee table, end table by a sofa, a desk or dining table. It can easily work as a bedside table too. Notice that those below are height adjustable.
Desk or small dresser can also work as a bedside table.
2 small storage ottomans or even stools at bed foot or foyer could be moved to the living area if needed for extra seating.
Here’s a bench that also works as a landing pad for the entry hall.
4 folding chairs to add to dining if needed but used elsewhere too – such as bedside tables in the bedroom perhaps? Extra points if the chairs also fold up for easy storage.
And of course consider flexible tables if you decide to go for a separate coffee table. Again, all of these have more than one possible purpose, starting with this chat-height table which can be used as a coffee table, end table, or for casual dining.
In the end a small space could be furnished with as little as a sofa or sofabed, one table and a side chair. Simple. Beautiful. Flexible.
Feeling hassled, rushed and harried is not living – not a life. Busyness and complexity are over rated. Being overscheduled is not the mark of importance or goodness. It is a mark of not carefully considering the content of one’s life.
Simplify your life. Here are some ideas to get started. Pick one that you would like to try for awhile. See how it works.
Get rid of the TV(s). It’s too negative, mind-numbing and junk food for the soul.
Stop cable, newspaper and magazine subscriptions.
Cancel cell phone(s) and use Skype.
Stop buying bottled water, soda, juices, vitamin drinks, sweetened teas or other bottled beverages.
Live in a smaller space – less to furnish, cool, heat, clean, paint, etc.
Leave your car at home. Bike, use public transport when possible.
Take a technology vacation. Check personal email at the end of the day or only once a week.
Read more. Join a book club.
Stop spending time with people who don’t make you feel good – even if they are “friends” or “family” because they aren’t.
Spend more time with real friends and cultivate new, healthy relationships (try the book club).
Get healthy on the inside. Stop negative or “victim-hood” self-talk. Practice healthy, affirmative and empowering self-talk every day.
Pay off bills. Stop buying stuff. Save more. Donate more.
Cook more. Use local food. Eat out less.
When you cook use meat as a flavoring. Eat more vegetables.
Welcome to a five minute online retreat in a lush, autumn garden. Take a deep breath in – – – exhale slowly. Repeat as needed. Then scroll down and imagine yourself enjoying this warm, autumn day.
(This post will remain permanently under Online Retreats on the bar above.)
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Now inhale and exhale breathing evenly. Sit still for a few moments. Hold the feeling of walking in the garden with you as you continue with your day.