Romantic Bedroom Before & After

Romance is my word for the year. You may remember this picture that was my inspiration for using what we already have to create a more inviting and romantic bedroom.

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Of course it’s not about literally duplicating this room. Rather I hope to improvise key elements of this room to create a similar warm, inviting, romantic look using what we already have. We already have a bed that is in keeping with this look, but slightly more modern with medium toned wood.

One afternoon I moved a red wool rug (a generous gift from my cousin) from the living room to the bedroom. This really set off the lighter toned wood of the bed and the white linens. Scouting around the house I gathered a collection of pictures in deep rusts, oranges and reds with wood and metal burnished wood frames. I hung them over the bed. A bookcase was moved to flank the bedroom window.

What else? I love the white bedding and the casual “unmade bed look” in this picture. Currently we have a white quilt (also a gift from my cousin) and comforter, cream flannel sheets and khaki colored pillows on our bed.

As it happens, a while ago DH gave me a gift of an extravagant down comforter. I had never used one before and they seemed expensive. But once you experience how incredibly light and warm they are I wonder how I ever lived without one – especially in Minnesota where temperatures easily dip to 20 or 30 below. We can set our thermostat even lower at night. It is a gift I truly enjoy. So topping the bed with this fluffy, but light, down comforter really adds to this look – and we already have it.

Since I’m a writer and voracious reader, as is DH, my desk has the usual writer’s articles, books and notes. This desk already functions as a bedside table.

Next I will finish one side of the window with a panel of cream velvet or white linen. I don’t think it’s necessary to drape the entire window which is large in this case. A panel hung to the floor will provide the same look for minimal or no cost. The fabric – velvet or linen – will most likely depend on how close to warmer weather we are when this update is finally finished. I already have cream colored linen panels, by the way.

Then hopefully I can post a picture of the finished project. It will have a slightly more modern look and feel. But the romantic vibe should come through. Here’s the before from a photo taken two years ago:

Photo R. Meshar

And here’s where we are so far, basically  almost done:

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Ultimate Banana Bread

Photo A. Meshar

In this season of fires in the fireplace and candles on the table, more comfort food comes to mind.

When you are the oldest of seven children you learn to cook early in life. This was a good thing. The first time I made this banana bread I was in the fourth grade. It came out picture perfect. It smelled heavenly. It is best right out of the oven, sliced and slathered with melted butter.

In fourth grade, I wrote down the recipe on a card and I have been using this same recipe card ever since. It still has my fourth grade hand writing on it! Of course the recipe card is now faded, yellowed and splattered with batter droplets.

Photo A. Meshar

My own children enjoyed it, as did guests when served topped with berries and whipped cream, yogurt or vanilla ice cream. I have drizzled it with frosting and sprinkled warmed slices with powdered sugar. I have spread cream cheese between two thin slices and serve it as small sandwiches.

You can exchange the bananas for zuchini or cranberries. Or replace half the sugar with orange juice. This is a no-fail recipe. You can be sure of it because even a fourth grader can do it!

Here is the original recipe:

In a bowl beat 2 eggs ’till fluffy, add 1 stick softened butter, 1 (or reduce to 1/2) cup sugar and 2 large or 3 medium ripe bananas. Slowly add blended dry ingredients: 2 cups flour, 1 tsp salt, 1 tsp baking soda, 1/2 cup nuts (optional). Turn into a greased loaf pan. Bake at 375F for 45-60 minutes.

That’s it. My fourth grade nose can smell it even now . . .

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Doll Houses From My Childhood

While I had many toys growing up a few remain clearly in my memory. Perhaps you have some childhood toys that you remember?

My mother had an antique, cardboard doll house from her own childhood. It came with amazing wood furniture. The kitchen featured a dry sink like the one shown here. There was also an ice box – not a refrigerator. In the bedrooms, small wooden lamps that sat on each side of a wooden vanity with a real mirror. My sister and I enjoyed playing with it for hours.

Of course we had our own “modern” doll houses from the sixties. They had more furniture, people and accessories. My doll house was given to me by my childhood friend K. It was metal like the one below, but pink with white trim and the furniture and people were plastic. It even had a baby grand piano for the living room.

There was a crib, playpen and stroller. Plastic yellow stairs attached so you could move the people to the upstairs. Except for the baby – all the family members could stand up on their plastic bases.

My father used to bring home discontinued wallpaper sample books from work. We used the patterns to create our own doll houses from shoes boxes. Stacked on one another they created a doll house with wallpaper, curtains, draperies and even patterned carpets!

If you grew up when I did perhaps you or one of your friends had a Barbie Townhouse? I had one just like the one in this picture. The furniture was cardboard. There were tiny hangers for the clothes. Two drawers for clothes under the closet. The vanity in the center actually had small curlers, a comb and a hand mirror. The entire house and contents folded up into its own suitcase with a carrying handle. I could take it to friends’ houses. We also had an aqua, plastic Barbie Corvette. These dolls really had the life. But today I wonder, what values were being taught?

One of the most memorable and more creative toys I ever got was from my Aunt. She gave me a toy showboat theatre. Almost like a doll house, it came with a stage curtain, plays with scenery, characters and dialogue scripts. If I can recall the plays were Pinocchio, Wizard of Oz, Heidi and Cinderella. We used this for hours. I kept it for many years and my own daughters played with it too. Wherever it is today, I hope someone is enjoying it as much as we did.

I think it’s interesting the toys we remember and what they taught us.

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Tiny Silver Spoons

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It is a hot, dry day in Jerusalem. Afternoon light pours in through the curtains and spills onto the terrazzo floor. There is a thick layer of dust on the sofa, chairs, tables and bookshelves. Artwork hangs from every wall. The chest holds beautiful linens and a drawer full of silver, serving bowls and carvings.

The room seems to echo. An entire life happened here. But now everything must be moved out. The house has been sold. We can only take what will fit in the two large suitcases.

Silently we take the art out of their frames. I am tired from packing. Thirsty, too, from the heat and the dust. Finally the last serving pieces and silverware are placed in a leather duffel. It will be left with friends. Picking up the eight, tiny silver spoons, I wrap them in a linen napkin and place them in my purse.

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Doors of Dublin

The door to our townhouse needs painting. I would like to do something fun, welcoming and inviting. The doors of Dublin will serve as my inspiration.

Photo Doors of Dublin
Photo Doors of Dublin
Photo Doors of Dublin
Photo Doors of Dublin

Have you ever seen the doors of Dublin? On a visit to Ireland with my daughters a number of years ago we saw them. They are truly amazing. Dozens of, otherwise boring, brick brownstone houses have their front doors painted brilliant, high-gloss colors.

Walking along those streets I saw a story behind each colorful door. Shiny brass hardware, softly lit windows, palladium windows, fresh white trim paint, planters and small front gardens beckoned. Rosemary bushes in planters infused an savory, astringent scent. Giant hydrangeas bloomed in shocking pink and blue. Climbing roses lingered on the brick facade.

The doors serve as a symbol of Irish hospitality which is exceptional. Everywhere we went people opened their homes to us. We experienced Irish hospitality first hand. This included, of course, freshly baked Irish brown bread. It is a quick bread that doesn’t use yeast. But it is warm and delicious, especially topped with local butter.

Painting a door a fun, bright color is inviting, it is welcoming and it is all about hospitality. Like Abraham and Sarah in Genesis 18:1-8, we are wired to connect, to invite, to welcome others in. Our culture is extremely xenophobic – meaning we have great fear of strangers. In fact we even call strangers “aliens” as if they are from another planet!

However, for other cultures and for Christians, it’s about hospitality. For an excellent film about hospitality, I recommend the movie Babette’s Feast. I will share much more about Babette’s Feast in another post.

Afterall, as with Abraham and Sarah, strangers are God in disguise. Mary and Joseph seeking a place to rest. God comes to us in the stranger. In connecting with those who are not like us we become more of who we are meant to be. We develop our personhood. We are not called to be individuals – but persons. God lives in each of us. All is a gift from God. Therefore, what we have is also theirs. Turn it inside out. Invite others in!

Photo Doors of Dublin

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