Passover

Tonight we shared a passover seder meal at our neighbor’s home. Many Christians, one Jew.

Yet we are all Isra-el (one who struggles with God or El-ohim).

Our host, E, is a good friend and an amazing cook. There was tender roasted lamb seasoned with thyme, rosemary and olive oil. There was the charosset of walnuts, ginger, apples and dates. There was steaming, homemade chicken matzo ball soup. There were roasted potatoes, boiled eggs and horseradish.

Like many generations before us, we shared the bitter herbs of suffering dipped in the salt water of tears. We broke the unleavened bread and drank the wine.

We heard the story of how people of every time and place escape from the oppression they are caught in – whether it is the dominant culture, as in Egypt, or the seduction of anything that separates us from God or our true selves.

We prayed that death, in all its forms, will pass over this house, these lives.

We remembered how we wandered in the desert of our lives, looking for something more.

We gave thanks in gratefulness, for all God has done, is doing and will do in our lives to make us who we are truly meant to be. We are being slowly healed by healthy relationships in community.

As we heard the ancient blessings in Hebrew, Aramaic and English, even Elijah came to sit in the empty chair near the end, in the form of one more guest.

It was an evening of friendship, generosity and hospitality. Thank you E.

Amen.

Visio Divina Reflection

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Here’s another Lenten retreat you can give yourself. Perhaps you have heard of Lectio Devina. This is an ancient form of prayer that combines both a sacred reading with meditation and reflection.

Would you like to go deeper? Recently I attended training on Visio Divina. Reading and reflection are used along with artwork. The artwork is the focus of the reflection and meditation. Artwork adds a deeper dimension.

This can be very powerful. Artwork usually affects us on many levels. Take the image shown here by Jan Richardson from her book In Wisdom’s Path. The imagery of meal sharing and community immediately come to mind. But further reflection reveals the round table, joined hands and loaves of bread. All sacramental rituals.

Go  deeper still and you may notice many ethnicities symbolizing our shared humanity or the human family. You may notice different connections based on your own meal sharing experiences.

Continued silent reflection may call us to action, a decision or a desire to be open to new possibilities.

You don’t need to visit a monastary for a retreat. Your monastary is your world, wherever you are. Make it sacred. Take a mini retreat:

Try it yourself. Select art and writing that speak to you. Find a quiet space where you can sit comfortably for awhile.

1. Read your selected writing slowly.

2. Consider a word or phrase that stays with you and ponder it.

3. Then bring the artwork into your meditation and read the writing again.

4. Take up to fifteen minutes to look deeply into the picture.

5. Finally, take 5-10 minutes of silent time. See what comes back to you.

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Paper Dolls, Roller Skates & Gum Chains

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Did you have paper dolls growing up? We went to my Grandma Rose’s house many Sundays for dinner. When we were there she always gave us pop, Wrigley gum and a new package of paper dolls – like the Betsy McCall paper dolls you see here.

My younger daughter (and older daughter too) made very creative paper dolls when she was younger. She spent hours drawing and designing their clothes, accessories and even jewelry! All of the dolls and clothing were kept in envelopes. These dolls had the ultimate GAP wardrobes. C. whatever happened to your paper dolls and their amazing wardrobes?

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Growing up we also made gum chains. I hate to think of the dental bills that were the result of chewing so much Wrigley and Bazooka bubble gum . . .

That makes me remember Chinese jump ropes, metal roller skates with a key I wore around my neck, hula hoops, sidewalk chalk, jacks and hopscotch. What ever happened to Silly Putty? It came in a plastic egg if I remember correctly.

Yes, now I’m ten years old. I think it’s easier for me to remember the ages of nine to ten because those were the years where we were still most authentically our true selves – the last time before adolescence and the culture made us self-conscious, more competitive and aware of comparisons.

Watch the movie August Rush for a sense of searching for and regaining what was lost. But what we seek is not parents we never really knew or reconnecting with our children. What we seek is our true selves.

Today I work to reconnect with my ten year old self. My true and authentic self.

I can hear the clatter of my roller skates as they move over the sidewalk cracks. Skating down my street, my skate key is on a string around my neck, bubble gum in my mouth and the wind blowing in my hair and rushing past my face . . .

May your authentic, ten-year-old self emerge during your day today!

Roxanne

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Guest House To Go

Photo New York Times

Two more examples of small space living to check out today.

Think adding a guest house is expensive? Think again and this is NOT April Fools, but it is April fun!

See what Derek Diedricksen did that was creative and innovative and only $200. Derek was featured in the Sunday New York Times (Feb. 27, 2011). He used recycled materials and old junk to create playful tiny houses. He has four of them so far.

You can look at all of them in a slideshow here and read all about it in the article here.

Another interesting article on thoughtful, reflective, yet still beautiful small space living can be seen at “Diana’s Innermost House” here. This tiny house was built for the expressed purpose as Diana says, “. . . to make possible a simple life of reflection and conversation.”

You may also like Small Space Living-Boat Style and Adult Tree House.

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Small Space Living – Boat Style

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A previous post considered what it would be like to live in a tree house. But many of us dream of living on a boat. Here’s a 42 ft. boat that may fit your dream. Living on a boat would make the entire globe “local.” Like a turtle, your home goes with you, wherever you are.

Actually, because our true home is within us – our home actually does go with us wherever we are!

While most of us may not be able to actually live on a boat like this – we can look for the great ideas of boat-life living that make good use of small spaces.

Clean lines, comfortable fabrics, sky lights, dual purpose furnishings and multi-level storage are the order of the day here. Although, it seems to me that the cabinet knobs would be intrusive or poking. However, I don’t live on a boat, so maybe the knobs work better. Of course, the amount of stuff is kept to a bare minimum. How much stuff do we really need?

Have you ever lived out of a backpack or small pilot bag for an extended period of time? I have. You realize how little you really need to live comfortably day to day. Author Rita Golden Gelman lived out of a backpack for fifteen years and wrote about her experience in her fascinating book, Tales of a Female Nomad. Experiences and relationships filled her life rather than stuff and shopping.

Engage your creativity. What will move us out into the world? Living on a boat is fun to imagine, think about, dream about. Ahoy!

Next post: a fun but quirky example of small space living, micro houses!

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