Make Your $$ Do More – Use Cash

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We vote with our dollars everytime we buy something. Use your hard earned money to do more. Buy strategically by looking for fair trade and sustainable items. Use cash when you can.

Recently a commenter on Naked Capitalism made some points worth considering about why it’s better to pay with cash.

“Paying cash to the small merchants in your community helps them in many ways. It avoids the skimming off of percentages from the credit card companies, it avoids the imposition of debit card swipe fees on merchants or you, and it gives them an alternate to begging for credit to make payroll.

If you are scared of carrying much cash, write checks.

. . . Plastic is for proliferate pushover pansies pretending that convenience trumps all.”

I think she or he makes a good point. From now on, I will use cash when I can – like at the grocery store or a local restaurant.

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How to Offend Friends & Neighbors

Perhaps you received this VERY offensive and divisive email going around this holiday season? It began:

“Let’s put the Christ back in Christmas” with a nostalgic 1950’s snow scene (though what was so wonderful about the 1950’s I’m not exactly sure).

This was followed by – “maybe we can prevent one more American tradition from being lost in the sea of ‘Political Correctness.'”

The response to this is to reply to the sender that you found it offensive and then DELETE. DELETE. DELETE.

Why? It’s definitely NOT Christ-like to insist on wishing everyone a “Merry Christmas,” even though they may be Jewish and celebrating Hanukkah, for example. What about those celebrating Kwanzaa?

Jesus welcomed everyone – as they were, for who they were – no exceptions. He didn’t require that they become Jewish in order to be included. So why then, would Christians insist to others that the only mid-winter holiday being celebrated is Christmas? This is pretty thoughtless and exclusionary at best.

We are NOT a Christian country and have never been. The millions of Native Americans already living here were certainly not Christian and the founding fathers were self-identified deists – so not Christian. We need to speak about our history truthfully, as it really was.

To be Christ-like is to be inclusionary and to treat others the way they wish to be treated. This is the reason we seek to be politically correct –  if you are uncertain of some one’s religious orientation – be mindful and thoughtful – wish them “Happy Holidays” and welcome them in!

Today the United States is a beautifully, diverse community of many faiths, cultures and ethnicities. Our Trinitarian God of diversity tells Christians that everyone is valued and all are welcome.

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School of Essential Ingredients

The School of Essential Ingredients is an amazing book by Erica Bauermeister that tells a story of how we truly are healed in and by community. It is through being in healthy, supportive relationships that we gain the strength and wisdom to be all that we are truly meant to be.

“A “heartbreakingly delicious” national bestseller about a chef, her students, and the evocative lessons that food teaches about life

Once a month, eight students gather in Lillian’s restaurant for a cooking class. Among them is Claire, a young woman coming to terms with her new identity as a mother; Tom, a lawyer whose life has been overturned by loss; Antonia, an Italian kitchen designer adapting to life in America; and Carl and Helen, a long-married couple whose union contains surprises the rest of the class would never suspect…

The students have come to learn the art behind Lillian’s soulful dishes, but it soon becomes clear that each seeks a recipe for something beyond the kitchen. And soon they are transformed by the aromas, flavors, and textures of what they create.”

Great holiday reading. Check for it at your local library.

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Dangers of Obedience and Compliance

Photo R. Meshar

Too often in Christianity (Catholicism included) obedience is held up as a virtue. This is true if the obedience is to God within ourselves or our deepest interior voice. Unfortunately this is not typically the reference for the virtue of obedience. The reference is all too often to religious authorities, institutions or superiors.

This is the opposite of what Christianity calls us to. We are called to answer to God within. We are to discern our own heart and listen to our own voice. Those who call us to obedience to others often have their own benefit in mind.

Society, of course, encourages obedience and compliance. What better way to control large numbers of people?

Are you obedient to others? If so, why?

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Amazing Performance

Jake Shimabukuro

In my previous post I explained why TV is really junk food for the mind. Now I would invite you to watch something worthwhile and enjoyable. Take  20 minutes to listen to an amazing concert performance worthy of Queen Elizabeth herself, who heard it too.

TEDxTokyo Jake Shimabukuro

 

 

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