Money Can Buy Happiness

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Ever notice that when you buy something for someone else your feel much better than when you buy something for yourself? Michael Norton did and took a closer look:

At TEDxCambridge, Michael Norton shares fascinating research on how money can, indeed buy happiness — when you don’t spend it on yourself. Listen for surprising data on the many ways pro-social spending can benefit you, your work, and (of course) other people.

See for yourself what he found out in his TED Talk here. Spending money on ourselves merely serves to isolate us and doesn’t increase our happiness. The exception would be those who are self-centered narcissists, who will fail to see any value in this idea. But for the rest of us, spending money on others, any amount, causes a big increase in our own happiness. This is powerful.

Now imagine what this would mean not only for individuals, but for local government, public policy and corporations?

It doesn’t matter how you spend money on someone else – it only matters that you spend it on someone else. Why not be strategic and spend your money in a way that permanently improves the lives of others?

Become a friend of Mary’s Pence and automatically donate a monthly amount of your choice. Mary’s Pence ESPERA Funds create community lending pools that permanently improve the lives of women in an entire community.

High Drama

Some people need drama – and lots of it. They’re not too interesting to be around and not very good as friends. But if you have a few in your life – send them this fun high drama video.

However, best is to not have high drama people in your life at all. Typically, they zap your energy and drain you quickly with all their high drama antics! Save your precious time and energy for living your own authentic life.

Links from this post and the previous one were from DH, thank you!

Be Flexible

Flexible people are very often also creative people. They can adapt to new situations. They can also see new uses for everyday objects.

Look around. What can you use in a different way today?

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No Green Thumb? No Problem!

The first day of April turns my thoughts to spring flowers, summer gardens and patios. But what if you don’t have a green thumb, like me? What if you travel and can’t always be home to water plants when the weather turns hot? Maybe you would simply like to use less water?

Is it possible to create an enticing outdoor patio or balcony area without a garden or lots of plants? This is not an April Fool’s joke 😉

Here are some ideas using a couple of potted plants or succulents or dried arrangements. Note the addition of one or two large, old lanterns as well. Consider a stone water fountain, or a brass or terracotta pot of tall bamboo stalks or tall dried curly willow. Fool or trick your eye into seeing a garden without the greens!

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In the balcony above I would replace most of the lavender pots with a lantern and perhaps one or two pots of various kinds of mint or herbs for tea. But the crates and rug are nice additions. Stackable and folding chairs or tables can be used outside and in.

Don’t forget succulents. Pot them and forget them. They rarely need water.

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Just some possibilities.

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