Traditions, Teachings and Changes

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Occasionally I encounter a Catholic with the strange idea that Church teaching never changes. Any amount of reflection on this faulty assumption should immediately bring to mind numerous changes that have occurred over time. Another strange idea that some Catholics have is that culture shouldn’t influence Church teaching. Both of these ideas can be easily examined and questioned.

If we look at the book of Acts of the Apostles, we see an early Church that taught the practice of pooling and sharing material wealth (Acts 4:32-35) and caring for everyone within the community. This was the teaching and practice of early Christianity. Certainly that practice has changed.

Of course the practice of Eucharist has changed dramatically. St. Paul reminds the Corinthians that the practice of Eucharist is to be a meal that serves and feeds the poor who are actually hungry (1 Cor 11:17-22). Now there’s a foundational teaching that changed! When was the last time you went to a Catholic mass where the ritual included serving an actual meal to those physically hungry in their midst? Perhaps never. Nevertheless, such masses do occur and I have attended a few.

Other teachings have changed as well, and thankfully for the better. In the middle Ages the Church declared that the practice of slavery was a doctrine and usury was a mortal sin. Both teachings have since been shelved and in fact, reversed.

Now, what about the influence of culture? In truth, the cultures of the day have always influenced Church teaching. First Jewish culture, then Greek, Latin, European nomadic tribes, etc. How could they not? Culture (including language) is the lens through which people view their world.

Cultural influences can be positive. Consider the St. Paul’s Jewish idea that we are all part of the Body of Christ. On the other hand consider the negative Roman idea that governance is best done via a monarchy or imperial oligarchy. Today a negative influence would be unregulated capitalism in our culture. But a positive one could be the concept of democracy or everyone having a voice.

Church teaching is always changing. It is alive. We add to what we understand, how we interpret scripture and dogma (core truths) and continue to build on that understanding with each culture that becomes part of Christianity. Over time our understanding of what is holy, whole and healing changes. Our understanding of what it means to be truly human changes. Our understanding of God changes.

With the idea of “mission” therefore, we do not seek to Christianize Africa. Rather we seek to Africanize Christianity.” We do this by listening and lifting up the ways God is already at work in African peoples and their cultures.

But how will we know which influences are positive or negative? A good way to check is to ask yourself, “Does it benefit the good of all or the common good?” and “Does it have a preference for the vulnerable and weakest among us?”

Not everything in our Catholic traditions should be kept. We need to know, as Catholics, what to appropriate out of our Catholic Christian traditions – and what is best forgotten.

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“Nice and Quiet”

Why are people (read “women”) considered good if they are “nice and quiet”?

In my family, growing up, I often heard neighbors called “good” if they were “nice and quiet.”

Children should be “nice and quiet” – especially girls. Really? Is this what we are called to be? Nice and quiet, obedient, compliant? For who? To who?

Wrongly believing we should be “nice and quiet” keeps us from being outraged – not nice – when confronted with the abominations of poverty, abuse of women and children, unfair trade laws, lack of health insurance and lack of social safety nets for those struggling.

Just for today speak out. Say what you think. Use your voice. Take up space and room in the world. Spread out. “Make a joyful noise.” Let the universe know that you are here, alive and in the world.

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InnerPeace – Unplugged

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Unplug. Take a technology vacation, a technology break, a technology hiatus. Disconnect. Do it for a week. Do it for a day or like Nick Bilton, do it for thirty minutes a day. Just do it.

Learn to connect in a different way. Pico Iyer did it. He calls it the Joy of Quiet in his New York Times article, writing:

MAYBE that’s why more and more people I know, even if they have no religious commitment, seem to be turning to yoga, or meditation, or tai chi; these aren’t New Age fads so much as ways to connect with what could be called the wisdom of old age. Two journalist friends of mine observe an “Internet sabbath” every week, turning off their online connections from Friday night to Monday morning, so as to try to revive those ancient customs known as family meals and conversation. Finding myself at breakfast with a group of lawyers in Oxford four months ago, I noticed that all their talk was of sailing — or riding or bridge: anything that would allow them to get out of radio contact for a few hours.

Other friends try to go on long walks every Sunday, or to “forget” their cellphones at home. A series of tests in recent years has shown, Mr. Carr points out, that after spending time in quiet rural settings, subjects “exhibit greater attentiveness, stronger memory and generally improved cognition. Their brains become both calmer and sharper.” More than that empathy, as well as deep thought, depends (as neuroscientists like Antonio Damasio have found) on neural processes that are “inherently slow.” The very ones our high-speed lives have little time for.

But this new connectivity takes practice and discipline. It’s a skill to be learned. Unplugging for a new connectivity doesn’t happen in an instant as Nick Bilton found out and explains in his article Disruptions: Resolved in 2012: To Enjoy the View Without Help From an iPhone.

I spent 10 minutes trying to compose the perfect shot, moving my phone from side to side, adjusting light settings and picking the perfect filter.

Then, I stopped. Here I was, watching this magnificent sunset, and all I could do is peer at it through a tiny four-inch screen.

“What’s wrong with me?” I thought. “I can’t seem to enjoy anything without trying to digitally capture it or spew it onto the Internet.”

Hence my New Year’s resolution: In 2012, I plan to spend at least 30 minutes a day without my iPhone. Without Internet, Twitter, Facebook and my iPad. Spending a half-hour a day without electronics might sound easy for most, but for me, 30 unconnected minutes produces the same anxious feelings of a child left accidentally at the mall.

Those anxious feelings? Those are the feelings of immaturity, of resisting wrestling with our own interior, of refusing to embrace the reality of our own lack of control. We need to grow up. We need to develop the adult ability to make space for silence. Space to listen to our own wisdom. Space to simply be. Then we can begin to live comfortably inside our own skin. Then we can begin to live comfortably with others.

Turn off your TV. Stop your stereo. Rest your iPhone and iPad. Experience withdrawal from your “crackberry.”

Unplug. Connect in a different way. Experience silence. Just be.

Watch. What. Happens.

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On Death and Dying

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Statistically, people tend to die more frequently in the winter, especially during the holidays. Death isn’t the opposite of life, as our culture teaches us. Rather, death is a part of life. The opposite of death is birth. Both are a part of life. Unfortunately, our culture has an abhorrence of death and resists the process of death at every turn.

Rather than resisting death at all costs, perhaps we should think about what it means to die well? Catholics celebrate death very well. We know the importance of prayer, community, ritual, incense, candles, procession, music to help those who remain deal with the loss of someone close to them.

We also know that death is not the end. We believe that life continues beyond death. Consider the photo above as a metaphor for death. Is it a sunrise, a sunset or both at once?

The Japanese also have some beautiful traditional rituals surrounding death. Watch the Japanese film Departures to get a sense to the care and reverence given to those who die – and those who remain.

The book Gracefull Exits: How Great Beings Die by Sushila Black also talks about what it means to die well.

I spent time with a very close friend of mine who died too young from ovarian cancer. She was fully present to her life – even in her dying. I learned from her that if we live each day fully present, as if each day was our last, then we have learned to live well – and dying well is already incorporated into how we live.

Death changes us, but death is not the end. We are transcendent beings of love and depth. We exist beyond our death.

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Authentic Living

"A rose by any other name . . ."

Last year I picked one word to focus on for the year. My word was “romantic” and focusing on it allowed romance to enter my life in a more conscious and continuous way.

This year another word has emerged. It fits my on-going task of going deeper; going deeper into my life, into life around me, into the life of women, into the lives of  those struggling with poverty and into our education, economic, religious and political systems. The word is authentic.

Dictionary.com defines “authentic” as “one who acts independently.” The word “authentic” comes from the Latin word “authenticus” meaning “coming from the author.” This, in turn, is from the Greek word “authentikos,” from “auto” plus “hent” – a doer.

To be authentic includes acting, writing and speaking from an original or unique point of view. Going deeper into life allows us to do this because we allow life to more fully develop who we are – our personhood.

We are not  meant to be passive. We are not called to be doers on automatic pilot. We are called to be autonomous doers; acting and thinking independently, authentically and for ourselves, not blindly following others.

We are not victims of the powers that be or the systems in the world around us — unless we choose to be. To choose this is to choose a distortion of what it means to live a truly human life. To be “nice and quiet” neighbors, citizens, or individuals is to live life on the default setting. On the other hand we can choose to be autonomous, to observe and create new, different and better choices.

Each of us is given just one life. We can author this life in any way we choose. But it is our life to author – to live and to create.

I’ll return to the word “authentic” as the year unfolds. It will be interesting to observe what authenticity brings to the year ahead.

A happy and healthy New Year to all of you – my InnerPacific readers!

Roxanne

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