Beachy days . . .

Photo R. Meshar

Today it is a particularly gray and dismal mid-winter day here in Minnesota. It’s a perfect day to remember the sandy, summer beaches of my teen years.

On hot, summer days, when we needed to cool off, my friends Patty, Vicky, Shannon and I would ride our bikes down Highland Parkway to Ford Parkway. Biking past Highland Shopping Center and Powers Department Store, we would cross the Mississippi River Bridge and emerge into Minneapolis. From there we would ride along Minnehaha Parkway finally arriving at Lake Hiawatha.

As a lake, Hiawatha was smaller than Lake Nokomis only a few blocks away. But because it was smaller fewer people went there and the beach was less crowded. By the time we arrived we were hot, sweating and tired from our bike ride. We would fling our bikes on the ground, run to the lake, stepping quickly across the hot sand and wade into the cold water – shorts, T-shirts and all. Instant relief!

Afterward as we lay on our beach towels, we listened to station KSTP on our transistor radios. Songs from The Beach Boys, The Beatles, The Four Tops or The Temptations floated around us. We were shiny from Coppertone suntan oil and smelled like coconut lotion. Our sunglasses were full of oily fingerprints and our day-glo flipflops were full of sand. Our wet hair dripped in the breeze. True to our teenage years we would talk, talk, talk.

Finally as late afternoon arrived we would pack up our soggy towels and head home, stopping on our way at the nearby Dairy Queen for an ice cream sandwich. A perfect end to a perfect afternoon.

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Challenge: A Year Without Buying Clothes

Photo Savvima

Blogs like Six Items or Less, Miss Minimalist and The Great American Apparel Diet have inspired me to reduce the amount of clothing that I have. Throughout the past year I have simplified my wardrobe and donated many gently used items. Now I would like to go further and simply buy less clothing. Upon reflection I think I can eliminate buying clothes altogether – at least for a year.

Think of all the time I won’t spend shopping for clothes, trying on clothes or watching for items to go on sale. Then there’s the catalogs I won’t have to look at — although very few are delivered to my house these days. After spending so many years working in the retail industry (before teaching) this will be quite a change!

With the money that isn’t spent on clothes I would like to increase my giving to organizations that help solve the problem of poverty, such as Mary’s Pence. While charity helps the immediate situation, many non-profits are now focused on solving the underlying problems that cause poverty. Mary’s Pence is one of these. This is much more difficult and requires a long term focus along with extensive education. But it can, and is being done.

As for clothes, My husband suggested that, if necessary, I could always purchase something at a resale store – as long as I donated something for each piece I purchased. But I hope to avoid that entirely.

What do you think? Can I go an entire year without buying clothes?

Could you? – for a month? three months? a year? Take the challenge. Join me! Let me know how it goes.

P.S. No – this is NOT a picture of my closet – but a picture of my closet in my dreams.

Tomorrow – a trip to the beach . . .

Roxanne

The Richness of Simplicity

Photo Scienceblogs.com

When people wonder why I’m so interested in voluntary simplicity and minimalism I can explain that the less stuff I have, the more deeply I can enter into my life. Or I can remind people of the smaller environmental impact of living with less. Of course there’s always the realization that wealth is not about having more but about needing less. Needing less brings great freedom.

But perhaps Miss Minimalist says it best:

“Over the past year, I’ve heard many a critique of minimalism – mainly by people who think it’s nothing more than counting items, decluttering closets, or living out of a backpack.

My answer: minimalism is so much more than that. Minimalism is determining when you have enough, so you can do something extraordinary with the excess.

That may mean working fewer hours so you can spend more time with your kids; buying less stuff to preserve more of the Earth’s resources; or, like Toby Ord, spending less money on material goods and donating more to those in need.

In short, living with less means you have more to give.

That’s the beauty of enough – and that’s how minimalism can change the world.”

To quote theologian Sallie McFague, “We all live more simply so that others can simply live.”

Philosopher Peter Singer wrote a very interesting and compelling book about the same idea: The Life You Can Save. He uses memorable stories to captivate the reader. I recommend it.

Meanwhile, my life’s about to become even more simplified. This year I am moving to another level of simplicity. Check in tomorrow to find out what it is.

Isn’t it Romantic?

Photo Apt. Therapy

In a previous post I mentioned that I was searching for a word to focus on for the new year. That word will be romance. The idea of romance and our great life romance has been appearing in many ways.

I think we are constantly being romanced, or seduced if you will, by reality or life itself. A book that explains this well is The Sacred Romance by John Eldredge and Brent Curtis. For me, reading this book was another opportunity to fall more deeply in love. Once we experience this joy we want to share it with others. It’s no accident that we speak about people as being “in love” – because literally they are. We are steeped in it or stuffed in it. Unfortunately we are not often aware of this.

Falling in love with life is a transformative experience. Although this experience creates more joy it also provides clarity. Our connectedness with others and with creation can be felt more intensely. Systems of injustice, discrimination or economic bias can be seen more easily as well. Just as those in love focus on the other, central to this romance is the idea that our well being  depends on the well being of others.

The artist in me seeks ways to create environments that attract and invite others. The pictures in this post show two examples of romantic rooms. While busier than my taste, they do evoke that feeling of romance – of the richness we feel on the inside.

Using items we already have I may try and replicate key elements of this look. Just like romance, these rooms have many layers and textures – rugs, pictures, books (my favorite!) woods, leathers, glass, fabric. However, colors are minimal or neutral emphasizing the layers and textures. The bedding is white, for example. The sofa is a neutral sage or gray. There is a sense of organized clutter along with a sense of calm. They are rooms I would want to spend time in, alone or with others.

Working in retailing taught me that the entire world is a stage or theatre, if you will. Creating a more romantic environment is one step to inviting romance into my life. Continuing to work for the well being of others will be another.

As the year unfolds I will continue to focus, watch and incorporate the idea of romance. Come along  with me . . .

Photo Apt. Therapy

New Year’s Eve in Minnesota

Photo Lake Nokomis

It’s New Year’s Eve in Minnesota. Unlike last year we are not in the midst of a blizzard – but we do have plenty of snow. Perhaps we will take a late night walk as we did a few years back.

Another year, when it was very cold and late – close to midnight – my husband suggested we bundle up and head out. So we put on our boots, jackets, hats, scarves and gloves and got into the car. I had no idea where we were going. He drove up Cedar Avenue into Minneapolis and turned right on Nokomis Parkway. He parked across from the lake. We got out. There was no one around. There were no cars. It was completely dark and silent. We crunched through the snow and began to walk around the lake. It was so cold; we saw our breath in the freezing air. We saw stars. We heard the hoot of an owl. Starlight lit our path. We walked for awhile – about halfway around the lake. Very romantic. I remember it still.

Happy New Year to you!