Mardi Gras!

Today is fat Tuesday, otherwise known as Mardi gras. This is traditionally a time of celebration before the forty days of Lent begin tomorrow. Costume balls, masks and parades come to mind for many of us – especially if you live anywhere near New Orleans.

I’ll be celebrating today. Will you?

100 Years of International Women’s Day


Today is the 100th anniversary of International Women’s Day. Learn more about celebrating 100 years of women’s achievments here.

Tragically, today too many women around the world still can not vote, open bank accounts, study or get advanced education, do work of their choice, marry the person of their choice or live a life different from their culture’s expectations with dignity. Too many women are still stoned for adultery (as if men don’t participate), killed at birth for not being male, or treated as family servants and slaves. In too many places rape is still seen as something that women bring on themselves, rather than as a crime of violence, power, violation and abuse.

Read Lisa Shannon’s powerful and moving book, A Thousand Sisters documenting the treatment of women in the Congo, for example.

Throughout most of human history (until the last century) women have been considered property – owned by men. That is still true in many places today. In the United States, these same conditions have only been alleviated for women within the last century. I am keenly aware that only within the last twenty years would I have been allowed to attend a Catholic seminary in order to receive my M.Div. degree.

But huge changes have come in my lifetime. In the United States, since the 1960’s, women can now open bank accounts without their husbands or fathers co-signing. Their confidential medical files are no longer shared on their husbands’ requests. While the glass ceiling exists, more women continue moving into positions of authority in business and in politics. Meanwhile, men are becoming more involved in family life. Bringing balance to both genders is good for families and for society.

Women comprise more than half the world’s population. What is good for women is ultimately good for their children, their families, their communities and the world.

Lox, Stock and Bagel

Last Sunday my husband prepared toasted bagels with cream cheese, thinly sliced salmon, sliced sweet onion and – wait – capers! It was divine.

It was snowing outside so we decided to have a lazy morning lounging in bed, reading the New York Times online, drinking coffee and enjoying crunchy bagels. It was heaven.

Celebrating the Sabbath should definitely include OpEd pages, book reviews, steaming hot coffee and fun conversation. How much better can it get?

Well it actually did get better. The next day we had mouthwatering buckwheat banana pancakes for breakfast. You can see them here. He does know his way around the kitchen.

Let it snow, let it snow, let it snow . . .

Romantic Dining Area Before & After

So why shouldn’t I give the same romantic treatment to our dining area as I did to the bedroom? Afterall, this is the space where we share food and wine with friends, conversations over espresso, and dinners for just the two of us.

We have moved our dining table around the townhouse. Sometimes it is placed near the server, but not always. It has been next to the fireplace – this was very romantic. It has also been near the living room window which was lovely on warm summer nights. Last year we took it down and used my desk as both a work place and a dining table when necessary. With my desk now in the bedroom, the dining table is currently under the chandelier where you actually might expect it 😉

But what to do now??? Romance calls for layers, varied textures and a punch of unexpected color. So that’s what I attempted to do here.

Here’s the uninspiring before photo from two years ago:

Photo R. Meshar

Here’s the more romantic after:

Photo R. Meshar

Again, I only used what we already had. I anchored the space with the server. It also provides a platform for adding additional textures and color in the glass bowls, metal lamp and picture frame. The lamp adds another level of lighting which also warms the space. Adding layers of textures such as metal, glass and flowing fabric along with a punch of color makes it much more romantic and inviting. The space just seems more lively – but not cluttered.

What do you think?

Soon I will post on the bathroom re-do, before and after. Stay tuned . . .

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