Good Friday

The beginning of Richard Rohr’s Meditation today says it well –

“Today the primary human problem, the core issue that defeats human history, is both revealed and resolved.  It is indeed a “good” Friday.  The central issue at work is the human inclination to kill others, in any multitude of ways, instead of dying ourselves—to our own illusions, pretenses, narcissism, and self-defeating behaviors.  Jesus dies “for” us not in the sense of “in place of” but “in solidarity with.” The first is merely a heavenly transaction of sorts; the second is a transformation of our very soul and the trajectory of history.”

Read the rest here.

The Great Liturgy Begins

Last night was the beginning of the great three-day liturgy – the Triduum – for Catholics. It is by far the most important liturgy. It is the the focus or the center of the liturgical year and our faith life. It is so important that three days are devoted to its completion.

Expectation is in the air. My colleague exclaimed “At last, Lent is over!” At sundown on Holy Thursday we gather together. Tonight we feast. The church is bright with candlelight. Expectation is in the air.

We leave chronos time and enter kairos time . . .

The music begins. The three oils are brought in and placed before those assembled. This procession begins the liturgy. Liturgy quite simply means “the work of the people.”

We hear the story of Exodus – the story of the Passover Seder. We hear from St. Paul, the voice of the early Church. We hear the story of the Last Supper in the gospel of John. In this gospel, Eucharist is a foot washing. Jesus demonstrates that service brings healing.

Large baskets of white towels and pitchers of warm water await. We, too, wash each others’ feet. Large and small, tired or hurting – each washes and is washed in turn.

Then the banquet. Lots of incense – for the table, for the assembly, for the servers and the presiders. The plumes drift upward.

The table is carefully dressed. The large table cloth is unfolded until it hangs completely to the floor. Real bread and wine are brought forward along with our other gifts. Baskets of used towels symbolize our gift of ourselves in service.

We bless, break and share the bread. We drink the wine. We remember to “do this in memory of me.” What is it we are to do? We are to allow ourselves to be blessed, broken and shared. We come and learn to share bread, in order to go out into the world and share bread! Many are hungry.

Then the lights dim. The liturgy does not end here. It has only just begun.

We leave in silence and we wait.

Question the Culture

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Here’s a reflection while we wait through Good Friday and Holy Saturday.

Perhaps you noticed that I recently added the category Question the Culture. Why? Because as thinking Catholics, we are called to question the culture we live in.

Our Judeo-Christian history is all about questioning the culture. The Israelites, in the story of Exodus, questioned the dominant Egyptian culture and its institution of slavery. Jesus certainly questioned the religious authorities of his day. Early Christians questioned the dominant culture of Rome – and resisted Roman culture by living in a very counter-cultural way (Acts 4:32-35).

To follow our culture or our nation unquestioningly is the heresy of fideism. Fideism is quite simply, blind obedience to any external authority, be it governmental, religious or cultural.

Nationalism, for example, is a problem – or at least it should be. As Christians we believe that God is for all people. Therefore, we shouldn’t care more for those of our own family, community or nation. We care for all, just as God does.

You may observe other things in our culture are problematic too. As we know, every culture has both desirable and undesirable qualities. Because of this, Christians are called to question. It is helpful to know other cultures. The saying, “to know only one culture is to know no culture” is true. This is why Catholic colleges promote study abroad programs.

In the end, it is about questioning. This is the foundation of education. To be Catholic is to question everything.

Humor pokes fun at absurdities in our culture that we overlook. Check out Gary and Elaine, the couple who lives in our catalogs over at Catalog Living.

And here’s another on YouTube with British humor, “Women: Know Your Limits!”

You may also like other posts that question the culture such as A Bar At Home-Really?, Truth or Consequences and American Catholicism – How’s it Working?


“More Roman Than Catholic?” is here!

My newest book has just arrived. Yes! It was a long time in coming but it’s finally here. It is available here, soon at Amazon Books and Barnes & Noble.

The book explores this topic: Are we more Roman than Catholic?

As Roman Catholics, have we over-emphasized values from ancient Roman culture that clash with what it means to be truly Catholic? Have power and privilege for a few and external authority without accountability trumped cooperation, shared leadership and discernment by the whole community? What does this mean for our Catholicity? For the future of the Church?

We have seen a Catholicism that fosters an ongoing reliance on external authority. This is problematic and dangerous. True Roman Catholicism must foster within each person a reliance on internal authority and integrity to one’s own values within a community. A vision of the Church without this is no vision at all.

If you are an interested Catholic or just want to know more – order a copy.

You may also like American Catholicism- How’s it Working?

Romantic Living Room Inspiration

This is in fact my 100th post on this blog. Amazing!

So I will use it somewhat frivolously posting romantic living room inspiration pictures.

Photo Pottery Barn

Photo Coastal Living
Photo Angie Hranowsky for Coastal Living
Photo Pottery Barn

Photo Pottery Barn
Photo Angie Hranowsky
Photo HIllaryThomasDesigns
Photo Apartment Therapy, Writer's Romantic Supper

These rooms have a few problems. What they are missing is a lived-in look. Except for the last one which is a bit too cluttered, mainly due to the textured rug and wallpaper. Unfortunately, these pictures tell me little about who might live in these rooms. For the most part, they are too sterile. Not very complex. But they are a start. Another problem is that the furniture is single purpose. Single-use items are not at all useful in our small townhouse.

Who lives in these rooms? Check out Catalog Living and read about Gary and Elaine who live there ;-D

Here’s what I like about these rooms – they have lots of light and a casual summer feel – appealing when living in Minnesota. Also I see textures and layers including off-white cotton throws, sheer linen window coverings, pillows, layered rugs including oriental rugs. These rooms are small, like mine. Medium, rustic wood tones and wicker provide some depth and texture along candles and of course, books.

Most of these elements I already have. Re-arranged, can I use what I have to incorporate these elements into my own home – but with a little more personality (i.e “pop”), depth and function? Plus, whatever I do, it will have to flow with the rest of the space and with other items I have. We’ll see.

You may also like Isn’t It Romantic?, Romantic Kitchen Inspiration, Romantic Bedroom Before & After, Romantic Dining Area Before & After.